Intentions Determine Right or Wrong

Here is a simple proof of why what determines "right and wrong"
(wholesome and unwholesome/ skillful and unskillful/ good and bad)
is logically, spiritually and lawfully based on our intentions instead
of our actions.

If person Tom and Dick help Harry to be free of suffering,
obviously, both their actions in themselves are "right".

But if one can read their minds to see their intentions,
and discover Tom to be be truly helpful only to benefit Harry,
while Dick is helpful only to benefit himself indirectly,
then surely, ultimately, on the most fundamental level,
despite their similarly helpful actions,
Tom is the one that is truly right, while Dick is actually wrong -
even if Dick's action is totally "right" in the eyes of Harry!

This tells us 2 important lessons -

1. It is crucial to be mindful of our intentions, to have right ones -
because karma is fundamentally created by our intentions.
An action is ultimately morally right only when the intention is
right.

2. It is crucial not to judge someone only by his/her actions -
because things are often not what they seem.
An outwardly "wrong" action might be actually right,
while an outwardly "right" action might be wrong.

written by "Shen Shi'an"

Counter-balance the negativity

Counter-balance the negativity with your positive intentions. Think of a scale and remember to put enough positive intentions on the opposite side that your positivity outweighs the previous negativity.

It's not always enough to 'pivot' away from what we don't want. We must focus on the essence of our desires enough to counter-balance and neutralize the effects of our previous 'negativity'.

You have to work on releasing irritation or self-sabotaging negative emotions.
Your vibration is always where you last left it